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Where
to meet girls
(Taken from "Sweep women off their feet...":)
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Shopping
Malls. Try to remember the last time you went to a mall.
Can you possibly look in a direction and not spot a beautiful girl
that you would like to seduce? I'd venture a guess and say no.
The malls are always full of girls.
Girls
who work at various stores and shops within the mall, but also a
lot of girls
who go shopping or just hang out. Girls
love shopping. Though it is harder to seduce a girl if she is surrounded
by her friends, it is not always the case.
Walk up and down the halls and look inside
stores for beautiful clerks or shoppers. If it is a women's clothing
store or something feminine, even better. You can easily walk up
to a girl (clerk or shopper) and ask her:
"Excuse me. Would you be so kind to
hold this up in front of you for a moment? It's my sister's birthday
next week and you are about the same size as her and from what I
can tell you have the same excellent fashion sense."
Better yet, after the initial approach you
can even ask her if she sees anything else that she really likes
in the store that your sister might like too because of the similar
tastes in fashion. Probe for keywords why she likes certain things
over the others etc.
Once you have sufficient information of not
only what she likes but also why she likes it you can start your
charm. Expand the conversation to likes and dislikes in other areas
of her life to get her view on things and so on. If she's a shopper
you might want to act very quickly to finding ways for you to continue
your conversation somewhere else, but if she works there she won't
mind spending the time with you especially if it's not very busy.
Libraries.
If there is one place that girls
almost always outnumber guys, it has to be the library. Whether
it's a public library or a college/university library, you will
always find young girls
trying to do research for a project or homework.
These girls
are usually very intelligent and dedicated to their work, but the
plain truth is the fact that everybody can use a break once in a
while. If you provide a bit of a pleasant distraction they'll be
more than happy to talk to you. You could be asking them for some
help to locate a specific section or specialty book. Even if they
can't help you out they will at least have to tell you that they
don't know where you can find your book. But guess what? That is
a conversation taking place right there. Ask them about their own
work, interests, etc. Show interest, and let them talk about it
for a while.
These girls
like to show off their knowledge so they'll tell you more than you
need to know about the subject. But if you develop good rapport
at this stage you can easily continue this fascinating conversation
elsewhere. Get my drift? You can start asking why they're interested
in this particular subject, what's the most fascinating thing about
it, what are the challenges and so on. Once you move to answering
this type of questions then you will be able to get an insight as
to what type of girl she is, what she holds dear and so on.
Gourmet Coffee Shops.
Before work, at lunch and after work these places are packed with
girls.
Sometimes the more packed the place, the better because you may
have to share a table with "someone". If it's not very
busy you can still ask to sit next to a beautiful girl. Just tell
her that you don't like to sit alone and if she'd mind you sitting
with her till you're done with your drink.
If you're sitting together might as well
talk about something. And remember this is a gourmet coffee shop.
These girls
don't come here for the coffee, they come here for the specialty
coffee, and they come for the frills and sometimes even the prestige
associated with a particular specialty coffee shop.
So what do you talk
about?
Her favorite drink and why she likes it over
regular coffee, how does it make her feel and so on. Try and talk
in detail about the different sensations and aromas. Women love
descriptive talk in detail especially if it involves something that
can even be compared to a sexual sensation.
The whipped cream, the cherry on top, how
the blend of the coffee with the different liqueurs reminds you
of a hot and steamy Latin love dance stimulating your taste buds
beyond comparison etc. I guess while you are at the library you
can pick up some books on gourmet foods and specialty drinks to
learn the language fine critics use to describe them. Believe me,
talking like that can make a girl melt even though you're only talking
about a specialty coffee, because you end up planting all these
wonderful images in her mind by using metaphors.
Workplace or School/College.
This is a more relaxed atmosphere for seducing women because you
are not under time constraints. If you can't get her hotter than
hot for you today, you can talk to her again tomorrow. You'll have
much better opportunities to get to know her. In addition, if you
work or study closely together for an extended period of time chances
are that you will become attracted to each other anyway.
Personals.
[A word of warning about personals - they will never get you the
experience of actually approaching and getting the attention of
the woman you want because a meeting arranged through personals
simply skips this important phase. So although meeting women this
way might feel easier initially, ultimately you will never learn
the skills that really make the difference]
Is this too low
for you? Is it beneath you? Hell no. Whether it's newspaper
personals, telephone personals, video personals or Internet personals
and chat rooms, they offer you excellent opportunities to meet a
lot of women to practice your skills.
With the exception of video personals the
drawback is the fact that you don't really know what the person
looks like. But that's not a problem. It shouldn't be your goal
to meet someone to seduce right away. This is nothing but an avenue
for you to get practice and experience talking to women. But if
things click for you why not go for it anyway? If she turns out
to be butt ugly just tell her that as shallow as this seems, without
the physical attraction things aren't going to go anywhere between
you two and move on.
Now when placing these personals you can
attract a whole lot of women with some catchy headline and be bothered
with a lot of replies that get you nowhere wasting your time. Or
you can be very specific and discriminating about who you are what
you look like and what you're looking for. Feel free to include
any characteristics they may find unappealing. This will eliminate
a lot of women who might otherwise reply but the ones who do reply
are more likely to end up somewhere because they already know what
to expect from you and are willing to accept it.
Better yet, read
a lot of the women's personals and try to model yours after them.
As an added dirty trick, you can place a
personal as a woman seeking a man to get a lot of good ideas from
other men who reply to it. Most of them will be really bad but once
in a while there will be one that will catch your eye and curiosity.
When you reply to a woman's personal ad try out these other ideas
to see if they work. If they work, you learned something new. If
they don't work, move on.
An example of a
personals ad. ASF:
"Isn't attraction incredible? Imagine
relaxing into strong arms holding you, feeling safe and appreciated
and intimate, knowing you're exactly where you belong... I'm educated,
successful, emotionally mature, and I know what I want. My work
keeps me busy, but I make time for travel, dining out, music (very
diverse tastes), and anything new and interesting. I'm tall, in
great shape, with green eyes and dark wavy hair (picture available).
Looking to meet a woman who's smart, honest, and loves to laugh.
Now tell me all about you..."
A few more US-specific
places and times to meet women. Speed Seduction» newsletter,
Ross Jeffries:
Restaurants with attached bars: These places
are often great Tuesday to Thursday nights, around 6 - 8:30 PM.
Especially upscale places, they cater to a professional crowd. Some
VERY nice looking women looking to unwind after work. Also often
these places serve as a meeting ground for women having bacheleorette
parties.
Coffee houses: like Starbucks, Coffee Bean,
Tea Leaf etc. Great from 8 - 10:30 AM every day of the week. After
9 AM you are more likely to get women who work in retail, outside
sales like pharmaceutical reps, self-employed, students etc.
Supermarkets:
M - F noon to around 1:30 PM as women on their lunch hours pop into
buy things. Monday to Thursday 6 - 8:30 PM, Saturdays 10 AM to noon,
same for Sundays.
Shopping malls:
This is a no brainer. If they have a good food court and are near
offices, then noon til 1:30 PM, M - F. Hit the food courts and forget
most of the rest of the stores. Other good times: Tues - Thurs 6:30
- 8 PM and Sat afternoons.
Self-improvement seminars: Such seminars
are LOADED to the gunwales with good-looking, SUGGESTIBLE women
who are totally open to the type of themes discussed in any good
Speed Seduction» pattern. Same with most of the self-help
gurus. Christ, ya don't even have to sign up. Just find out where
they are being held, hang out in the lobby of the hotel and swoop
in on the HB's during the coffee, pea and dinner breaks.
Gyms: The women are in awesome shape and
usually quite adventurous.
Yoga Classes: Unbelievable amounts of hard-bodied,
wildy well-shaped women. Take a beginners class if you've never
done it before and you'll met lots of women, who are also VERY suggestible
and open to "new ways" of thinking.
Sporting clubs and associations:
"These areas are very good for meeting single women. You find
out easily which women are single and you can talk with them easily
because you have a similar interest. What could be easier? There
is immediate conversation to talk about and its enough to get to
know each other enough to work out: "Am I attracted to this
person or not?"
Now the footy club
is maybe not the best place for hunting women but a netball
club that has mixed competitions definitely is. Gymnasiums are good
to. Women at gyms will talk to any guy that talks to them. Everything
is on your side in these places because the woman knows you are
in the same club and therefore will not automatically be rude to
you. Also it gives them a harmless excuse to talk with you without
people thinking any sleaziness is going on. They may be waiting
for you to say something."
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