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My wife wants to go to a swingers club because she said those places are fun just to dance. What should I do?
Question by Hank: My wife wants to go to a swingers club because she said those places are fun just to dance. What should I do?
Should we just go or should I confront her and tell her that I think she is wanting to gradually get me there and eventually she wants some other D on the side? Or should I believe her when she says that they are fun places to go out and dance at?
Best answer:
Answer by Deacon
Of all the places to dance she wants to go there?? it ain’t for the music.
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A devil’s party is never a fun place to go. Stay out of harm’s way. I wish with all my heart that questions like yours be all trolls but unfortunately I know that many are true.
try it ones, then you’ll know what to do
She want to go fo ranother reason then dancing you just need to get it out of her. I would sit down and have a good talk with her and ask why would that be more fun then a club? This should be something both of you feel good about. Maybe she wants to go for the hell of it to just watch all night long to make your sex life better when you get home, or maybe she wants that life style. Ask yourself this question. Is she happy with you.
If you open your relationship’s door to the devil you will get nothing but destruction and divorce. Say no and stand you ground
Not to down your wife but, that’s probably the biggest load of horse shit I’ve ever heard. Don’t confront her, just gradually talk to her about it and if she goes on the defensive that’s when you know it’s a porblem.
Sounds like curiosity; however you’re lucky she’s telling you instead of hiding it. I say try it just once to see her reaction, for which it could be completely harmless. Perhaps someone told her they play the best music, or the crowd is interesting (nice), or maybe she’s just curious to know how people act in there. It could be related to many things, but I would just ask her in a mature/honest way, and let her know it’s been on your mind why she would pick that environment over another.
I say give it 1 shot, especially since you may like it yourself. If you don’t want to ask her as to why she would pick that place, agree to it and see how she acts/behaves.
I hope that helps a little bit.
You should celebrate, start hitting the gym, and start hunting.
Just think you get the other guys wife and think how many the porcupine has had
And a few months later your tool rots and falls off
First i would ask her how the hell does she know there fun places !
Do your research and then you have a honest and open conversation with her. Perhaps she is really naive and not aware of reality. However, it is obviously time for a open and honest conversation to see what the two of you can come up with that is workable for the two of you and your personal relationship.
How does she know that, to begin with? Aren’t you a bit curious as to how she knows that? I would be, altho like regular clubs, they have music, they usually are geared towards couples being able to hook up for sexual relations with each other. Has she been talking to you about the swingers lifestyle lately? You and her need to have a long talk with each other.
What would it hurt to go? It might be a lot of fun to flirt with other people. If things get out of hand,or you begin to feel uncomfortable tell your wife that you’re ready to leave. Swingers aren’t horrible people, they just like to have fun.
Maybe she’s just curious. Go with her once and if you’re disgusted leave and take her with you. If she fights you and is into it and wants to stay then you could be in trouble and need a big talk.
why dont u try it for once if u like it you can join .
if by “dancing” she means “lots of other guys you don’t know sticking their d*cks into her every orifice and splorking on her face” then yes there’s lots of “dancing” there.
Dancing is “polite foreplay”! lol
and her idea is to get you involved,
and you both will get the “added benefits”,
make sure you are secure in your marriage, and
GO have the FUN she needs~
she wants to go, with or with out you!
and “the benefits are all yours”!!
You will be opening Pandora’s Box.
If she wants to go out dancing, why there? Where did she hear about this? Why is it so appealing to her?
I would have a lot of questions for her. And I would still say, NO.
I wouldn’t go to a swingers club no matter what … Unless, you totally agree and want to be involved… There is absolutely no room for jealously in the lifestyle!
Makes sense to me. I read playboy for the articles.
The best club to dance in are Gay male clubs. She is either trying to shock you, or get you to try the lifestyle.